Who doesn’t know this: You get to know someone and suddenly they don’t answer. Don’t you also ask yourself in these moments if he misses you or even gives a thought to you?
To answer this question, you should know the signs that show up when you really can’t get a man out of his head. Of course, it is usually not easy for men to show their feelings openly. That’s why you should pay special attention to your guy’s behavior. A man can no longer write back for various reasons. He may be trying to distance himself from you. Maybe he wants some time to sort out his feelings for you. Of course, it could also be that he no longer wants to be in contact with you because he is not interested in you.
But you should still not give up hope at first when there is a radio silence between you. If you manage to interpret the signals correctly, you will know how he feels about you.
If you want to know more about it, then you should read on now!
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1. He hasn’t found a new one yet
This is a good sign because it shows that his thoughts are still on you. If a man doesn’t get in touch anymore, it may happen that he has met someone new. If you know for sure that’s not the case, chances are he’s still thinking about you.
2. He asks about you
He’s asking your friends about you? Then he might want to find out if you’re dating other men or if he still has a chance with you.
3. His friends contact you
If his friends text you and tell you how bad he is, then you know for sure that he still thinks about you a lot. They wouldn’t tell you if it had nothing to do with you.
4. You guys are still connected on the social media networks
Men usually remove women from their friends list who they no longer want to have anything to do with. If you are still following each other on Facebook, Instagram and Co., then that is definitely a good sign. Does he keep liking your posts and pictures? All the better!
5. You know he has trouble expressing his feelings
If he’s shown in the past that he doesn’t communicate his feelings very directly, then you know why he’s withdrawing now. He seems distant because he doesn’t know how to handle his feelings or share them with you.
None of this applies? Then it could possibly be due to the following reasons:
He may already be in a new partnership with someone else. Or he just lost interest in you and is trying to avoid contact with you. However, some men do not want to appear desperate and therefore withdraw. This is how they want to make sure they don’t become unattractive to you. It could be that your guy is secretly hoping that cutting off contact will draw you in and get in touch.
Or he wants to check how you react to his transmission break. Are you doing well without him? Do you complain directly? Or are you freaking out completely? This can help a man get an idea of you. As you can see, there can really be many reasons for his sudden silence.
So what can you do in this situation?
Of course it’s awkward for you because you’re probably already used to his texts. And it was nice with him! Still, you shouldn’t be hasty. Because if you text him too quickly, you could only make the situation worse. Even offended behavior will not get you very far. If your guy just needs some distance, don’t overwhelm him with your doubts or pressure him.
So just sit back and wait and see what comes next.
If after a long time there is no sign of life from him, then you can send him a message or two.
If you’ve already texted him and he hasn’t replied to it, then you shouldn’t text him again. You can’t force a conversation on him! He should come towards you now. If he’s really ready to have a conversation with you, then he’ll text you.
In the meantime, you should focus on yourself and your own life. Keep yourself busy, hang out with your friends or do something fun. It’s hard when you don’t know how the other person feels about you. We are all afraid of being rejected. That’s why the question of whether he’s thinking of you or not worries you so much. So stop tormenting yourself. Over time, this could lower your self-esteem and stress you out unnecessarily. Rather, you should ask yourself if you’ve found the time you’ve spent with him to date pleasant.
The more you do for yourself and the more you focus on your own life, the less you will think about whether he wants you or not.
