These 9 behaviors show that he doesn’t want to be with you

If a man is really in love with you, then he will send you certain signals. For example, he calls you very often or seeks your closeness. Some men also show their interest by giving you small gifts. Also Read (8 Mind Games Narcissists Love to Play and How to Disarm Them)

These signals are certainly not there if the man sees you only as a friend. If he doesn’t want to be with you, then the guy will show certain behavior patterns. If you’re currently dating someone and you’re unsure if they’re looking for something serious or just seeing you as a s*x adventure, look out for the following signs:

1st time he answers and then again for a long time not

One day he texts you non-stop and almost bombards you with messages and the next day, nothing. Although you may text each other a few times a week and there may be occasional phone calls, his communication isn’t exactly consistent. You just never know if you’re going to get a message today or if he’s going to respond to your every message. 

His erratic communication is not only an indicator of his unreliability, but may also be a sign that he is messaging other women who he also finds interesting. All of this shows that he is not interested in a relationship with you.

2. He cancels your meetings or dates

If he cancels your plans at the last minute or even dumps you, then he doesn’t care enough about you to respect your time and energy. If he’s already acting like this, imagine what this guy will look like as a husband or father. He’s not the one for you! A man who is interested in you wants to build the relationship, and communication and respect are an essential part of that. A man who keeps canceling plans with you doesn’t respect you. Also Read (According to Psychologists, These 20 Toxic Things Signs You’re a Covert Narcissist)

3. He says he misses you but doesn’t do anything to see you

Some people know exactly what to say to keep things going and this is a perfect example of that. If he says he misses you but doesn’t make any attempts to see you, that’s complete bullshit. Don’t fall for it and definitely don’t believe his empty words. If he really meant it, he would do anything to spend time with you. 

4. He won’t make long-term plans with you

If you really like a man, you may be dying to make long-term plans with him. For example, you could invite him to your friend’s wedding a few months in advance, buy concert tickets in advance, and set a date for a trip together. But if a man doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you, he’s unlikely to embark on any long-term plans in the future. Instead of being excited about being able to be with you in the future, he is hesitant and unable to give you a definitive yes. And if a man doesn’t want to think about your future together, he should be history for you.

5. Besides s*x, you hardly spend any time together

S*x is certainly part of a healthy relationship, but it shouldn’t be the largest part. Think about the last five times you saw each other.   Did he text late at night to get over? It’s okay from time to time, but a man who wants a relationship with you will want to spend time with you outside of the bedroom. You are more than your body. If he’s not interested in finding out what’s on your mind, then he’s not worth your time.

6. He doesn’t want to define the relationship

If you’ve been dating a man for a while and he still refuses to define the relationship, it’s not a good sign. A serious man wants to claim you as his partner and give you the title of girlfriend. This is definitely one of the definite signs that he might like you but doesn’t want a relationship with you. Also Read (Psychologists Say 17 Signs You Are Not His Priority, Just An Option)

7. He doesn’t introduce you to his friends or family members

When a man seriously wants a woman by his side, slowly but surely he will introduce her to his friends and family. Officially “introducing” is a big milestone for men, and they take special pride in introducing their wife to their friends or introducing her to their parents. If you’ve been dating for a few months and he hasn’t introduced you to anyone he cares about, that’s a big sign that he’s not really ready to legitimately include you in his life.

8. He mostly talks about himself and doesn’t seem to want to know anything about you

Some men love texting or calling and talking on the phone for hours. Yet they never get around to asking you. This is usually a sign that a man wants attention and maybe emotional support from you, but doesn’t want to take on the responsibilities that come with a real relationship. He will take what he can get from you but never give you what you need.

9. He seems very dismissive at times

He may say he likes you and you’re the one for him, but is totally dismissive at times. Or maybe he doesn’t say anything except that he’s too busy to see you. He can’t make any plans right now because of his job, boss, family, etc. But if he just keeps blocking you, that’s a sign he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you.